THE ENERGY FAMILY

There is much discussion regarding the NEW feminine energy here now. There is also heaps of information regarding ascension, becoming whole and unity consciousness. I think the leap is one we take in stages, it is a process. I also think IT does not happen to you. You dance with this energy integration. It will permeate through your body. It will open your mind to have expanded thinking and the ability to think beyond personalisation, either/or frames and all or nothing processing.

In the integration the emotional body maybe activated this will lessen as you allow this integration to occur. The opportunity as I see it - is for us whether male or female to allow the integration of the permeating energies to unify inside of us. Leading to a unified energy, mind and emotional system developing certainty, radiance and healthy perspectives. This affects our creative potential, the ways we relate, it opens up the light within us, it creates fulfillment and a relaxed serenity to your being ness.

THE ROAD TO THIS
The pathway may not feel great at times. Here are some tips and distinctions that may assist those 'tagged' and interested in the integration of our energy system.

We all have dark feminine and masculine energy and a wounded child. The three make up the energy family – all need to be working to have an integrated system of unity = ability to create and vibrate in a free flowing system. This opens up a new possibility with unification in love, the relationship we have with money and fulfilling our desires. Just opening self up to receive love/ the new feminine is NOT integral nor healthy. The light comes through when the dark is embraced.

Beyond this I actually think we will NOT even see energy or life as dark and light, masculine or feminine. All of these now are evident to me as mind constructs of limitation we created to label and define things. For now we will embrace them but beyond this I think as we unify and walk as integrated human beings our leadership, ways we love and how we interact will go beyond many of these “givens”.

What LIMITS us:

• Some of us have had our masculine energy so dis - empowered by the dark feminine energy we fail to use our decision making and choosing faculty in a decisive way in our lives
• Many of us become seduced by spiritual new age concepts and identification of “love” - we float and seek solutions becoming vagabonds with no real world success and a delusional perspective of what love is
• Others have dominating masculine energy for fear of the dark feminine judging the ‘darkness of this in others”. In rejecting this inside of us we unable to see the “seduction” game of the dark feminine. We then become controlled by this elsewhere in our lives where we think the feminine is healthy and loving mmmmmm
• We are dependent upon the feminine in other rejecting the feminine capacity of trust, flow and openness in self
• Others have been attached to their dark feminine and its manipulation of others under the guise it is their ‘gift’ keeping the magnificence of energy in the dark only fueling the resistance to this in the masculine
• Then others have completely rejected the masculine strength inside of self seeking this in a man and/or dominate masculine energy in other

THE 3 ROLES INSIDE OF US ALL

DARKNESS OF FEMININE
Manifests as the ‘witch/priestess/sage’ energy that dominates through energy and wisdom used in unhealthy ways sabotaging creation in our lives. Also representative as the needy/manipulative woman who controls others through doing/giving/ an over identification with being a healer/ martyr/mother. If we are seeing seduction/manipulation/guilt played out in our world it is the suppression of our dark feminine. The feelings of doubt, hopelessness and despair and fatigue many feel on this apparent ‘spiritual’ path is when the dark feminine has GOT YOU and is winning this game = dark masculine is dis –empowered and cant move forward – feels inertia and stuck. The dark masculine wins back power by arrogance, rigid thinking, ego and withholding emotion to feel safe but disconnected from self and others. This cycle goes round and round until we embrace all here

INNER WOUNDED CHILD
Is present behind the feminine and masculine energies and sits in weakness, deep insecurity and feelings of unsafety seeking a healthy mother or father - indicative in who we choose as our partners in life. As we integrate all of this we enter into healthy relationships built on love, passion and respect. This part of us must be loved and healed by self so it is not the dark child but free and joyful. Until this happens there will be no genuine experience of joy, joy will be fulfilled through experiences with other through sexual acts, dependence upon people, financial success, activity and/or achievement.

DARKNESS OF MASCULINE
Wants to control the dark feminine because it resents the feminine aspect of self who is free. The freedom we seek actually sits within the feminine. Ironically it is promoted as a masculine energy and THE HERO’s JOURNEY. There is actually no freedom in the masculine that is the double bind.The mind is never free. Therefore trust and flow cannot occur for us in the creative process as we experience this resentment of the feminine. It also cannot occur for us if we seek freedom through the mind and masculine. True freedom comes when all is integrated. This is seen in life in power dynamics with men/ masculine energy dominated situations. Often is seen as an experience of dishonesty in self and others as an obsession with injustice in the world - it is ALL you see and creates great irritation. Insecurity and distrust runs this energy system but is cleverly covered up as confidence and success. The opportunity for the masculine is pure choice, its ability to direct, hold, be the strength - that is its job inside of us all.

THE HEALTHY OPPORTUNITY
The healthy masculine knows the feminine provides her/him with freedom so embraces her. The masculine loves the wounded child and embraces her/him. The feminine sees and embraces the darkness of the feminine owns it and ceases to let it seduce the masculine. This creates flow, trust, choice, security and healthy courage. The healthy masculine makes choices and decisions when all of this is integrated that serves all and from the heart. The healthy feminine knows she is powerful, full and strong and is the inflow for the creative process. She is the ocean and the wave and loves her job as this. The inner healed child feels safe and secure – his/her parents are rocking along just fine all in balance. The energy family is united within all roles healthy and therefore creation is clean and expansive.

CREATION MANTRA
My healthy masculine chooses a healthy inflow of ( whatever you are choosing for example: money/love/joy/new opportunities/success/travel/desires etc) into my life and trusts the healthy feminine will take care of this and my healed child feels safe and secure in this family dynamic where everyone is looked after and following their healthy roles

HOW WILL THIS LOOK:

• The insecurity stuck at base chakra is integrated and we choose to 100% integrate and embrace all of our insecurity and imbalance here by "seeing" it. owning it and quitting it
• The masculine energy inside of us is working for us and we embrace the darkness of the masculine as well as our healthy masculine who creates through empowered choice
• The healthy feminine is in trust and inflow and we embrace the darkness of the feminine and our seducer
• The healed child is safe and secure and we ask our masculine to love and cherish and hold our inner child
• The doubt and logic regarding energy and its ability to transform is no longer evident as it is balanced inside of. It is also no longer in the dark, it is in the light expressed, considered and used with discernment
• This creates a clean and healthy individual who therefore no longer carries any resentment to the masculine and/or feminine, old wounds re childhood and any imbalance re her feminine and/or masculine sexual energy.

This integration of all is inclusive and integral and creates a flowing energy system = creation with goodness and integrity in the world. This might possibly be how we experience and create money from a new place inside of self, in business and in structures that have ended in lack till now. It also opens up potential for unification with each other in love that is truly uplifting and passionate. It also means the journey and arduous nature many have felt as we evolve is no longer apparent. We will no longer be carrying around the dark cloud - phew! The inner child is genuinely delightful to be around and feels joy. The masculine in us is free and means we no longer experience the weakness and lack of courage of this in self. The story many women hold regarding men is also dumped - sorry gals but it is a pure reflection of yourself. The feminine within us can feel relaxed and in flow allowing men to cherish us and be the experience of their masculine strength and freedom. Our relationships becoming safe, exciting and dynamic with men and women in flow with their energy system.